Welcome to Tri-Valley Cultural Jews

We are a Secular Humanistic community serving those who identify with the Jewish People through family, culture and history, rather than through religion. Serving the Greater East Bay with holiday celebrations, opportunities to express your progressive social values, and education for children, adults and families. We are affiliated with the Congress of Secular Jewish Organizations.  Please view the Upcoming Events link for a look at future activities. We look forward to seeing you!

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Castro Valley Pride Festival

TVCJ was proud to be at Castro Valley Pride festival again this year.  As one of our members put it, “When anyone is oppressed, Jews have to stand up!” We shared in the opening invocation and the reading of the names of the Orlando victims and enjoyed strolling around to meet the other vendors and organizations.  Tthe ambiance was relaxed and a lovely time was had by all.

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TVCJ’s Jewish Culture School

Video by Emma Greenberg.

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TVCJ Third Annual Book Review

Summertime and the living can be a little boring if you don’t have a good book… Peruse our recommendations and find something to read in the shade. You’ll find a book for just about every reading “taste” out there.

You can click on any title to be taken to an Amazon page to order that book.

Amy read, or rather listened to, Unfaithful Music and Disappearing Ink by Elvis Costello. It was great to hear about how he crafted his art, worked with other legendary musicians, and even convinced Paul McCartney to dust off an old guitar. Amy loved hearing Elvis tell his own story on the audio version.

Joy read The Book Thief by Markus Zusak. She found the perspective unique, as the story is narrated by Death, and the main character is a German (not Jewish) girl in Nazi Germany. Joy appreciated the author’s interesting way of writing.

Joy also recommends The Night Manager by John Le Carré, based on a true story of international espionage. The night manager at a hotel has a quest to expose a guest who is known for weapons smuggling. (Joy said the television movie based on this book has been changed and modernized.)

Karen read Maus by Art Spiegelman. This is a pair of graphic novels about the author’s parents and their story about what happened after Germans invaded. The books go back and forth in his father’s life between the 30s and 70s with characters represented by different animals.

Karen also shared The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver, a story that takes place first in 1930s Mexico, including interactions with Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera. The second half of the book has the central character returning to the U.S during the McCarthy era.

David read Ulysses by James Joyce, just to challenge himself to get through it. He found it “very fun”, and says it’s the first time he’s written notes in a book. Each individual chapter uses a different writing technique; for example, when writing about the Sirens, Joyce begins in a free verse poem, which gradually collapses into structured narrative text.

Judy recommended FOUR books (and kept her reviews succinct, as usual). First came Safekeeping by Jessamyn Hope. Judy likes that this book takes place in the 80s, as it speaks to a time that she has affinity to (and says it’s also just a really good book).

The Blood of Flowers by Anita Amirrezvani is about a poor Persian girl in the 1600s who becomes a rug weaver, describing how she lived, what she’s subjected to, and interspersed with stories that other characters put into it.

The Rent Collector by Camron Wright: Judy wasn’t sure she was going to like this one, but she got sucked in as it got better and better. She says it has an amazing twist that made sense, but you don’t see it coming.

Seraphina by Rachel Hartman is Judy’s enthusiastic YA recommendation. Seraphina is a dragon, different than any other dragons in other books you’ve read.

Rebecca read The Trials of Apollo by Rick Riordan (first book in a series). Apollo the Sun God has a quest but doesn’t know how to carry it out.

Second, Rebecca reviewed Serafina and the Black Cloak by Robert Beatty. This is the story of a girl who knows that children have disappeared, and she has to discover how she is going to help. This book also has a sequel: Serafina and the Twisted Staff.

Finally, Rebecca read Daniel’s Story, by Carol Matas, a book purchased at a Holocaust museum from the children’s exhibit. Daniel tells the story of his family’s journey, explaining pictures he has in an album and in his memory. This is a sad book, but Rebecca liked it and recommends it.

Solomon read Atonement, by Ian McEwan, a story about guilt and forgiveness. He had fun with the underlying idea of writing, narrating, narrative structure, and the omniscient point of view. It’s grim but it’s really good.

Mornings in Jenin by Susan Abulhawa is a thought-provoking novel about the Israeli/Palestinian conflict from a Palestinian lens. It covers the characters’ actions, reactions, and motivations in depth.

Leah recommends audiobooks for anyone who has a long commute! She listened to Earthing by Clinton Ober and Dr. Stephen T. Sinatra. This is a non-fiction book about the idea that we are no longer grounded or connected to the earth, as we have layers of concrete, rubber-soled shoes, etc. keeping us disconnected. The theory says this affects us in a variety of negative (no pun intended) ways, including building up toxins and interfering with sleep.

For One More Day by Mitch Albom is about death, like many of this author’s books. The main character laments the loss of his mother, whom he never appreciated as he struggled to earn his father’s love. He leads a troubled life and has the chance to   reconnect to his mother, who comes back as a sort of ghost figure.

Finally, Leah says The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert is especially good if you like gardening and planting. The main character follows in her father’s footsteps, becoming a botanist. Spans much of the 19th century.

Leslie read Soy Sauce for Beginners by Kristin Chen. 30-year-old Gretchen Lin leaves SF and husband to return to Singapore. She finds herself dealing with the problems of an alcoholic mother and her father’s family soy sauce business. A story for foodies of love and relationships. Gretchen has to decide whether to return to her husband or take over the family business.

Jerry read The Berlin Boxing Club by Robert Sharenow. This is a historical fiction story of a secular Jewish teenager, pre-WWII. He experiences harassment by non-Jews, even though he never identified with Judaism. His father has some connections and gets famous boxer Max Shmelling to give him lessons. The book is about the boy’s relationship with Max, or the relationship he hoped to have with him.

Jerry also read and recommends Through the Door of Life by Joy Ladin, a formerly male orthodox Jewish professor who found out she is female and came out as transgender.

Brett read The Martian by Andy Weir (also recommended last year). “Robinson Crusoe on Mars”: An astronaut is marooned on Mars, and this is his saga of survival, being resourceful, and coping with extreme loneliness. Told in journal format, with a very humorous voice. (Noah also recommends the audio version.)

Brett’s other recommendation was The Nexus Arc trilogy by Ramez Naam. A near-future science fiction series about what happens when people can communicate brain to brain. This raises questions about mind malware, empathy over distance, and societal resistance to change.

Kelly recommends the graphic novel Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi, a (non-fiction) memoir of a young girl living during the Iranian revolution.

Kelly also liked A Tyranny of Petticoats, edited by Jessica Spotswood. The editor commissioned 15 short stories about powerful young women in various historical fiction contexts. The collection includes stories from the revolutionary war, the civil war, and the 60s, some mythical or with mythical beings. Kelly says it’s a little uneven, but some of the stories are very engaging, particularly for younger (YA) readers.

Jamie read All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr (also recommended last year). These are two, eventually intertwined stories in Nazi-occupied Paris, one about a blind girl and one about an orphaned boy who gets involved with the Hitler youth. The author does a great job of bringing the two stories together.

Jamie and Sophia read The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White together. It’s a sweet book about wildlife and nature. A mute swan has to go into town to make money.

Carol recommends The Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach. It’s a novel about a naturally talented shortstop, recruited by a small-town college and struggling with self-doubt, as well as other complicated characters including his teammates and the college president.

Arcadia by Lauren Groff is a novel that starts in a utopian commune in the 70s, told from the perspective of Bit, who is born on the commune and has to shift his perspective as he grows older and eventually joins the outside world.

The Sixth Extinction: An Unnatural History by Elizabeth Kolbert is a non-fiction work chronicling the Earth’s five mass extinctions, and giving evidence that we are currently in a sixth extinction, caused by human beings. A bit scary, but fascinating.

Noah loved The First Fifteen Lives of Harry August by Claire North. Science fiction about a small population of people (the Cronus club) living throughout history – after death, they find themselves reborn with all of their cumulative memories and the ability to make changes. They figure out a way to pass messages to each other through time. The story opens with Harry about to pass away (and be reborn), when he receives the message that the world is ending and his help is needed.

11/22/63 by Stephen King is not a horror book. A contemporary high school English teacher stumbles into a portal that always leads to the same date in 1957. He is set on a mission by a mentor and friend to go back and prevent the death of Kennedy.

Wendy read The Bonesetter’s Daughter by Amy Tan, another beautiful Tan novel about several generations in a Chinese-American family, telling different stories about their lives, and going back and forth in time.

Isaac also read and recommends The Book Thief. He actually saw the movie first, but liked the (very long) book better.

Isaac also enjoyed The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton. This is a story that takes place in the sixties about two rival gangs, the Greasers and the Socs. The rich-kid Socs can do whatever they want, including beating up on the poorer Greasers.

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Lag B’Omer Picnic

 

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Tri-Valley Cultural Jews will be hosting our annual Lag B’Omer picnic potluck on Sunday, May 29 from 10:30 – 12:30.  This event will take place at Athan Downs Park, which is at  2975 Montevideo Dr. in San Ramon.  Please bring:  a picnic dish to share, an outdoor toy (frisbee, ball, etc.), AND… We will be celebrating “Week of Action” – taking action to do something positive in our community.  Please bring a donation for the youth living at the Avalon Program at Fred Finch Youth Center in Oakland, CA.  The program serves adolescents and is a specialized residential program for low income youth with intellectual disabilities and mental health problems. They can use the following items: games (suitable for age range 5-18), activity books, arts and crafts supplies, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, or toothpaste.

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Passover Seder

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Tri-Valley Cultural Jews will hold our annual Community Potluck Second Seder on Saturday April 23, from 5 pm – 7:30 pm. The seder will take place at the Bothwell Arts Center, which is located at 2466 8th St. in Livermore. Our kid-friendly (but not kid-centered) haggadah is secular and progressive with lots of singing. After the hour-long ceremony, we will share a potluck dinner. Please call Judy at 925 485 1049 to let us know you are coming and what you’d like to bring for the potluck. Vegetarian dishes are encouraged but not required. Invite a friend, too!
We need to hear from you by April 19 so we can be sure to have enough eggs, charoset, celery, and wine. The suggested donation for non-member adults is $20 (and you can apply this towards membership). Kids and members are free .

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Purim Celebration

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Tri-Valley Cultural Jews will be holding a secular Purim celebration on Sunday, March 20 from 10:30 – 12:30 at the Bothwell Arts Center in Livermore.  We will make hamantaschen, have crafts, games, and fun for all ages, and present our annual Purim skit.   Attendees are welcome to come dressed as their favorite Purim character.  This event is free for TVCJ members, and costs $10 for non-members (which can be applied to a membership if someone wishes to join).  The Bothwell Arts center is located at 2466 8th St. in Livermore.

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Lake Chabot Hike

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January 31, 10 am
Approximately 4 miles
17936 Lake Chabot Rd, Castro Valley, CA 94546

Meet just outside of the Lake Chabot Marina Cafe. Bring snack/lunch and water.

We will hike out just under 2 miles on the flat, paved East Shore Trail, following along the lake, and enjoy a nice snack/lunch break just past the bridge. Then we’ll head back along the Cameron Loop and Ten Hills Trail, which is a dirt path, and has a bit more elevation. Dogs are allowed but must be kept on leash ($2 fee per dog). Parking is $5 or you may park for free along Lake Chabot Road. We recommend parking near the Lake Chabot Marina entrance, where you’ll have easy access (a short walk) to the Lake Chabot Marina Cafe.

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